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do i ever really get over the girls i've loved? or is it just a kind of trasferrence that occurs? i feel like maybe it's the same love, you know, from the very beginning.. i cared for a girl for the first time, whether or not the feeling was returned for a while or not, it reached an end. i was sad. she moved on. i still had feelings for her til some other girl came along, did i get new feelings of affection when she showed up? or did the same ones from before get shifted to her? then the next girl and so on?